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Tag Archives: true love
A New Map for Relationships: Chapters 7, 8 & 9
The first of these two chapters describes a recent incident that easily could have blown up into an argument, but that was kept under control by our following “our new map for relationships.” Tearing up our old relationship map and piecing together a new one took years, but resulted in a marriage where we haven’t had a single fight or argument in at least 10 years. That’s something I didn’t think was possible, and I have to give Dorothie full credit for that vision. The second chapter is aptly titled, “Our Quest.” Continue reading
A New Map for Relationships: Chapters 4, 5 & 6
For reasons explained in my March 1 blog post, I’m posting draft chapters of my forthcoming book with my wife Dorothie: A New Map for Relationships: Creating True Love at Home and Peace on the Planet. We felt pressed to maintain the interest created by the ACM Turing Award announcement (mentioned in that March 1 post), so these are from a draft manuscript, and the final version will hopefully be even better. That post also has links to earlier chapters, and will be updated with links as new chapters are added. Continue reading
A New Map for Relationships: Chapters 2 & 3
For reasons explained in my March 1 blog post, I’m posting draft chapters of my forthcoming book with my wife Dorothie: “A New Map for Relationships: Creating True Love at Home and Peace on the Planet.” In my last post of chapter 1, I had mistreated Dorothie in a way that caused her to storm out of our car and, when she returned, rip up the map I was holding. The story has a happy ending, with the two of us breaking into laughter at the insanity of our actions, and then working to piece together the jig saw puzzle that our map had become – producing yet more laughter.
This time I’m posting chapters 2 and 3, on personal and international relationship maps. I felt it was important to get to chapter 3 so that readers will see the connections between improving one’s marriage or other personal relationship, ending needless wars, and making the nuclear threat become a nightmare of the past. Continue reading
The Turing Award, Nuclear Risk, and Recapturing True Love
It has just been announced at 10 AM this morning that my colleague Whitfield Diffie and I will be receiving this year’s ACM Turing Award and the $1,000,000 that comes with it – one reason it’s sometimes called “the Nobel Prize of computing.” But what does my former life in cybersecurity, which is the reason for the award, have to do with defusing the nuclear threat – the theme of this blog? And what does either of those have to do with recapturing true love – the last part of this post’s title? This and my next few blog posts will explain, so stay tuned. Continue reading
Defusing the Nuclear Threat 